Joe’s 1st Blog – Mobile Dating BootCamp

JoeHi it’s Joe with my first blog post for Mobile Dating BootCamp.

I’m busy using the new mobile dating apps, Tinder and Let’s Date.

Tinder idea is great.  Connecting you with friends of friends and quick reviewing of potential people.  It’s execution is lacking somewhat.  It’s missing filters.  Many of the users are very young (18-23) and particularly attractive, which doesn’t make sense why they’d be on this app.  I wonder if they got added without their knowing.  The app also doesn’t pull meaningful information in, so it’s hard to know if someone would be a good fit.  Probably errored on too quick to adopt, which means people aren’t committed to using it.  It also doesn’t seem to have much user adoption. I haven’t had much luck connecting with people despite going through quite a few.

Let’s date is actually better for identifying people who could be a match.  It provides easy scrolling of pics and relevant info for making a match.  Given the higher admin burden to sign up, the candidates don’t seem as attractive as those on Tinder.  I’ve noticed you’ve got more artsy and creative types with tattoos and piercings.  Could just be my geography in LA.  I have used the swipe feature where you can point out what you do/don’t like, but it doesn’t really seem to work well.  Takes too much effort too.  I’d really prefer to state my preferences up front and then refine from there.  My guess is the user base isn’t large enough to build it that way.  This is consistent with me getting matches that are 30+ miles away from me.  I couldn’t date someone in Santa Barbara from LA even if they were a supermodel.  I did appreciate the idea of saying X of the next Y people are interested in you.  But when it doesn’t happen, it’s a bit discouraging.  Again probably comes back to not a large enough user base actively using the app.  I do have a friend who met some boys through it, so maybe I need to give it more time.

Jaime’s First Post – Mobile Dating BootCamp

Jaime old photojaime31Oh how my profile needed some help!

Online dating expert Julie Spira and I emailed back and forth for a few weeks about my background, what I am looking for in a relationship etc. Last night we had our first phone conversation. We talked again about what sites I had been using for dating and then we went over my profile. First off, Julie told me I had way too many pictures up, I had 13 but she recommended having 5 up. I had always figured the more pictures the better, I am sometimes suspicious when someone only has a few pictures on their profile.

Julie told me not to give everything away in my profile, just to make it a bit of a teaser. I always had a picture of myself in a bikini, which she said is sending the wrong message. I had put it on the site because some of my guys friends that does online dating told me I should. I am looking for a serious relationship- I want to get married and have kids so Julie told me I had to take this picture down. The picture did get me a lot of attention, probably not the kind I am looking for!

We went over the rest of my profile, made some changes that will hopefully help! I am going to to play around on the Tinder and Match.com mobile apps and see how it goes!

Mobile Dating BootCamp 2 – Dating in a Mobile World [video]

Season 2 of Mobile Dating BootCamp is up and running.

Watch our six singles finding love from the convenience of their mobile phones using the latest mobile dating apps.

Vote for your favorite contestant in our video.

Mobile Dating BootCamp is hosted by online dating expert Julie Spira in partnership with Three Day Rule. Visit MobileDatingBootCamp.com to watch the progress of our daters and like us at Facebook.com/MobileDatingBootCamp.

Payal’s Video – Mobile Dating BootCamp

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Kyle’s Video – Mobile Dating BootCamp

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John’s Video – Mobile Dating BootCamp

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Joe’s Video at Mobile Dating BootCamp

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Jen’s Video – Mobile Dating BootCamp

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Franklin’s Video – Mobile Dating BootCamp

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Date Update from Franklin – Mobile Dating BootCamp

Franklin - Mobile Dating BootCampHi, it’s Franklin again checking in from Mobile Dating BootCamp.

So for the last two weeks I have been continuing to use the eHarmony app for the iPad. I was pretty skeptical of the guided communication process when I last checked in, but it’s starting to grow on me. No burden of creating an ice breaker, the ice breakers are built in.

I’ve managed to work my way through the guided communication pretty quickly with some women. I like the “Must Haves and Can’t Stands” step where we send 10 traits that we think we cannot live with and 10 more that we cannot live without in a prospective mate. As soon as I see, “Family” and “Kids” and “Children” on that list, I have to close the match. It’s just not what I want to have as part of the dating conversation right now.

I have managed to get through one complete guided communication with one woman and she seems like a catch. Looks like next is the secure phone call! Did I mention the app is delicious? I can’t stop using it. It’s really a super easy and elegant way to browse profiles.

Check back to view my profile page on Mobile Dating BootCamp to find out more.

Mobile Dating BootCamp was created by online dating expert Julie Spira, CEO and founder of  CyberDatingExpert.com. Watch as the singles try to find love from their mobile phones and like us at Facebook.com/CyberDatingExpert and Facebook.com/MobileDatingBootCamp